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The Right People Make it Happen!
One of my most recent births was a toughie. Mom labored for over 50 hours, and I remained by her side for about 30 hours. This particular client was seeking to have a vaginal delivery after a Cesarean, and if you know birth, you know this is tricky territory. Most people face resistance and scare tactics from their provider, but this mama was fully informed and found an OB who truly respected her wishes to go into spontaneous labor. He was all for her having a doula and even had to put a nurse in her place when she attempted to schedule an induction. She knew she did not want an induction due to the cascade of interventions that typically follow. Her hope was also to go unmedicated so she chose to labor at home as long as possible. This woman had done her research!
I thought to myself, "Well, let's see if this OB changes his tune when she's actually in labor."
Sometimes the amount of info out there regarding VBAC can be overwhelming, confusing, and at times plain false! It can be tricky navigating through all that noise, so I've narrowed it down for you. Read on to learn how YOU can stay informed and in control of your care.
Your provider is a key person in the success of your VBAC and it's very important to find someone who is supportive, not just tolerant. Remember that yes, no one can legally force you to have a C-section nor deny you care even if the hospital has a VBAC ban, but it's also important to know ahead of time if your hospital has the tools and staff to support a true C-section emergency. You really can't force a hospital to treat you if they don't have the means. And if your provider is suggesting a repeat C-section, don't dismiss the advice so quickly. Really talk to them about their concerns to find solutions and compromises. Sometimes having a repeat C-section is truly medically necessary and your best option. Next time you see your provider ask: •How long will you allow me to remain pregnant? Why do you prefer that date? •Will we attempt an induction? Which methods will be used? •How will I be monitored during labor? •How do you feel about me laboring as long as possible as long baby and I are doing well? •At what point during labor will a C-section be needed? Also, ask yourself: |
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